Becoming
informed is an active responsibility that anyone considering
cosmetic surgery must take on. Once you have taken personal
responsibility to do your own legwork and research,
you can and should feel comfortable signing consent
forms.
Becoming informed
can be an adventure, should you choose to view it that
way. Although it takes time and commitment, it is incredibly
exciting to seek out the information that will contribute
to your successful outcome. The amount of research will
vary from person to person according to the time and
energy available. Nonetheless, taking responsibility
minimally requires the following:
Do Not Be Hasty
in Your Decision
As difficult as this may be-wait. Wait until
you've thoroughly investigated the possibilities of
cosmetic surgery before you schedule appointments or
choose a doctor.
Pick a date three
months in the future as the target date to begin your
physician consultations. During that time, make a commitment
to read a book every two weeks, investigate several
Internet sites per week, and let the information wash
over you.
Have a Doctor
Selection Plan
In order
to successfully choose surgeons to visit, you must narrow
your choices. Begin with recommendations from friends,
look at articles written about surgeons in your area,
and watch for radio or television news stories featuring
plastic or cosmetic surgeons. See which names are mentioned
most often in a favorable way. These names should correspond
with the procedures you are considering.
Once you have gathered
at least three doctors' names, you can begin to conduct
phone interviews with the staff at their offices. Your
phone interviews with the doctors' staff should include
asking questions about the doctor's qualifications,
his experience with your particular procedure, whether
the staff has or would undergo surgery with the doctor
for whom they work, and what services the office offers
to patients.
Shop around Carefully
See more
than one doctor, no matter how much you like the first
one. Marked differences exist between doctors' techniques,
approaches, and comfort levels with various procedures.
Remember-when you visit surgeons or other doctors, they
are marketing the procedures and techniques in which
they are experienced. They may not discuss other
options that may be available to you if they do not
perform them.
Don't Be Emotional
Emotions can sometimes lead to making a hasty cosmetic
surgery decision based on an advertisement or a loved
one's suggestions. It is wonderful to dream, but unrealistic
or hasty decisions can turn that dream into a nightmare.
Asking for assistance from former patients who have
had positive and negative results will help to
ground your expectations and dreams in reality.
Know Your Goals
The goal
of surgery is improvement, not perfection. Knowing this
will take the pressure off both you and your physician.
It is imperative that you share your goals and motivations
so that your doctor understands what you are looking
for. This lays the groundwork for open communication
and helps to dispel any misunderstandings before they
take hold.
Informed Consent
Has Its Challenges
Keep in mind that true informed consent is always difficult
for numerous reasons. For example:
- Doctors attempt to, but can't always, convey
all matters involved with the surgery decision.
- Patients often have selective hearing.
- Statistically, few doctors have experienced
cosmetic surgery themselves.
- Doctors tend to focus on the clinical or technical
aspects of care and less on the emotional/psychological
aspects.
- Patients aren't always interested in hearing
about risks or complications for fear it might steer
them away from a decision that may have been difficult
in the first place.
Use a Consulting
Firm
One alternative
is to use a consulting firm to help you wade through
the myriad of options. But here, too, you must choose
carefully. Not all consulting firms are alike. Choose
one with a comfortable environment where you do not
feel rushed. Also make sure that their physician screening
and credentialing is comprehensive and explained to
you. Consulting fees vary based on the services available.
Communication
The potential
for miscommunication is great. At the very least, listening
carefully, asking questions, and achieving agreement
on issues to be included on your consent forms will
create an open and communicative environment. This will
go a long way in fostering a positive patient-physician
relationship. |